Your problems are Your Fault, or Blessings,
Depending on your Mindset!
So, you have problems in your life? That’s Great to hear.
What kind of problems are they?
Do your problems drain you all day or do they energize you?
Do your problems drain your bank account or do they fill your bank with loads of cash?
Do your problems destroy your relationships or do they build your current relationships and create new relationships?
Everyone has problems in their life. Some problems happen to you. While other people create problems in their life and then control those problems to their own advantage as well as that of their family, clients and the community.
These problems don’t really happen to you, as you might think, you just perceive it that way. The fact is, you created the problem. You create all problems in your life. Once you take ownership of that, you can turn those draining problems into propelling problems.
A very common draining problem is your massive credit card and unsecured debt. You created that problem. Sure, you can blame your car breaking down, your need to have that TV, your wife for running it up and then leaving. The fact is, you pulled out the card or signed on the dotted line, right?
Another common draining problem is “My wife is always bitching at me.” Guess what, you cause that too. Was she always a bitch to you? I bet not. What man marries a bitch out the gate?
No! You’re not the man she married. Look at yourself and be hones. I’m being honest with you. Why can’t you be honest with you?
Chances are, your wife still loves you. But she also resents you for not living up to your side of the bargain.
And by the way, she does not owe you shit. Your responsibility in your relationship is 100% yours. That’s for another conversation.
That’s just two examples of many draining problems you created for yourself and your family. The good news is, you can turn a draining problem into a propelling problem.
Propelling problems are those problems you control and even create in your life that move you toward your goals. Propelling problems improve your relationships, income and help you grow as a man of abundance.
Nothing grows in the comfort zone. What’s more, bad stress from draining problems cause deterioration.
Propelling problems are challenging problems that make you better in family, faith, finances and fitness.
Let’s work on those two problems and turn them around. Would you like to do that?
Your massive debt is going to take some time. Brother I know because I’ve been there too many times. Yah, it took me a while to learn.
The way you turn your draining problems into propelling problems is first, stop doing what got you there. Stop digging that hole.
Do you still have recurring charges to your credit cards that you don’t need? Check.
Do you have toys and junk you no longer use or can do without until you can REALLY afford them with cash?
Just a few months ago, I went through my house, garage and storage. I pulled out everything we have not used in 6-12 months. We sold much of it on Craigslist and Facebook Buy – Sell – Trade groups.
In one weekend we put almost $3000 in our pocket buy selling crap we did not need.
There are many other ways to start earning a few extra bucks. But we can talk about that in my Men of Abundance Society. That’s where we will talk over even bigger issues.
Now, let’s take care of that amazing woman you said you would love, cherish and honor, till death do you part.
She is amazing. All women are. They simply demand you hold up your end of the bargain. I’m going to give you two simple ideas right here and now. But the real juice is mentioned in the Men of Abundance Society.
When’s the last time you did something you know you was supposed to do, before your wife reminded you to do it? I know at least 3 things popped in your head just now. It’s been there. Get at least one, if not all three, done by the end of this weekend.
Here’s a big win for you. Are you ready?
When you get home tonight, walk in the door and go directly to your wife and gave her a kiss, a hug and say “I love and appreciate you baby.” If the kids run to you, as they often do, kneel down and tell them “I will be with in just a second. Mommy comes first.” Your wife will love that like you can not even believe. Especially if it’s been years since you’ve done something like that for her.
You know what? Your kids are going to love it too. They love seeing mommy and daddy loving on each other. It makes them feel safe.
Men, we could not talk about every draining and propelling problem today. But if you would like to have this conversation, Man-to-Man, I would like to have that conversation with you.
Come on over and join our Men of Abundance Community. It’s free and hosted on Facebook.
When you’re ready to step it up a notch, and really get control of your problems, and so much more, you can join the Men of Abundance Society.
Before you’re considered access to the Men of Abundance Society, I will want to get on a 20 minute call with you. I want to get to know you as a man. That call will let both of us know if the Men of Abundance Society is right for you.
Now, go out and Live Your Life of Abundance. And make sure to Pay it Forward.
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